Kids Zone

In AYSO, fans are asked to be cheerleaders, not critics. Kids Zone is a unique program that includes a parent pledge that moms and dads sign to commit to positive, encouraging behavior when they're watching the games. It also includes signs, buttons and other game-day reminders.

Soccer is a player's game. Players learn the game by trying new things, making mistakes and trying again. Sideline critics who scream instructions at players or criticize referees or coaches just slow down the learning process and make it less fun for everyone.

Negative, even violent, behavior of players, coaches and parents involved in youth sports has become almost epidemic in the U.S. Kids Zone is a proactive effort to counteract this trend.

As part of AYSO's education agenda, Kids Zone is a dynamic program aimed toward producing a thoroughly positive experience for everyone involved in youth soccer. To execute this program, four basic elements are involved:

The Button. This is a pin-on button with the Kids Zone logo. This is worn by program supporters at games and serves as a reminder of the importance of positive sideline behavior.

The Sign. A large sideline poster, which lists positive behavior standards, designed to be posted at the entrance of participating fields. Parents and spectators who will abide by these standards are welcome -- all others are not.

The Pledge. AYSO requests all parents to sign a pledge that holds them to the Kids Zone standards.

Kids Zone Parent Pledge

Coaches, referees, parents, and players all agree to abide by the following code of conduct as a condition to their participation in AYSO activities:

1. I pledge to be on time or early when bringing my child to his/her practices and games. I understand that it may be uncomfortable for my child to be late for a game or practice and that he/she is subject to physical risk if not provided adequate time to warm up. I understand that I am encouraged to stay during practices and games, but if I do not, I will be there when he/she is finished. Being punctual shows respect for the coach, who has other time commitments, and it tells my child that he/she is my top priority.

2. I understand that the top three reasons kids play sports are to have fun, make new friends, and learn new skills. I understand that the game is for the kids, and I will encourage my child to have fun and keep the sport in its proper perspective. I understand that athletes do their best when they are emotionally healthy, so I will be positive and supportive.

3. I will redefine what it is to be a “Winner” in my conversations with my child. Winners are people who make the maximum effort, continue to learn, and improve, and do not let mistakes, or fear of making mistakes, discourage them. I understand that mistakes are an inevitable part of any game and that people learn from their mistakes. I understand that all children are born with different abilities and that the true measure of success is not how my child compares to others, but how he/she is doing in comparison to his/her best self.

4. I will “Honor the Game.” I understand the importance of setting a good example of sportsmanship for my child. I will show respect for all involved in the game including coaches, players, opponents, opposing fans, and referees. I understand that officials, coaches, and players make mistakes. If the referee makes a call I do not agree with, I will refrain from questioning, insulting, or making personal attacks against him or her.

5. I understand that games can be exciting for my child as he/she deals with the fast-paced action of the game, responds to opponents, referees, and teammates, and listens to coaches. I will not yell out instructions. During the game, I will make only sportsmanlike comments encouraging my child and other players on both teams.

6. I will not make negative comments about the game, coaches, referees, or teammates in my child’s presence. This sets a bad example, negatively influencing my child’s motivation and overall experience. I agree to act in a sportsmanlike manner and make every effort to foster a friendly and nonviolent atmosphere.

7. I will not use alcohol, tobacco products, e-cigarettes or other vaping products, or controlled substances at any practices or games. I will not bring firearms or other weapons to any practices or games.

I agree to honor the AYSO Parent Pledge in my words and actions. I am responsible for making my child, my spouse, other family members, and any persons I invite to an AYSO activity aware of this code of conduct and getting their agreement to abide by this code of conduct as a condition to their participation in any AYSO activity.